Are you looking for a way to slow down and “de-stress” your busy life? Try playing with your child! Try getting back in touch with that playful, creative child inside of you and the imaginative, engaging child in front of you.
Suggestions:
1. Let your child take the lead and decide what to play. Help find the materials needed, then ask the child what part you are to play
2. Do whatever your child does—playing with blocks, or Leggos, etc.
3. Add an idea after you have done things their way, make suggestions and see where it takes your together play
Benefits:
There are many benefits when you play with your child. It’s about power. You are putting your child in a position of legitimate power. He can take the lead and direct what’s hppening. Playing this way can help reduce other “power struggles” you may be experiencing. It is also suggested that you increase the amount of “Floor Time” play after you have had to discipline your child or impost limits. It re-establishes the positive emotionial connections
It is also a way of showing your child that you value his ideas. You can also learn about your child. You may find out about what is on his mind, or hear some vocabulary you didn’t know he had.
Remember, this is what real “quality time” is all about. It works with any age child, even babies. You will have fun, you’ll laugh, you’ll relax and your child will remember these times.
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